Passing The Break Up Test Of Your Ex
If you are still clinging to the idea about getting your ex back, then you should pass the break up tests he will throw at you. Always remember that in any relationship, it should be a partnership not a single man show. Just like in instances where one does all the taking and the other does all the giving, then it is not pleasant at all.
Even then, when the relationship has ended sometimes the more dominant partner in the relationship will give these little “breaking up” tests to see just how much sway he or she carries with you. You cannot afford to fail these tests if you ever want to develop a healthy, lasting relationship with your ex.
What are these breaking up tests and how do you pass them?
The Beck and Call Test
A situation where you are always ready when your ex needs you. This does not mean you have to be there do little things for her/him right away even if it means jeopardizing a very important thing you need to do.
There are moments when it becomes too serious that it could help you get closer again. But in other situations, you have to let your ex realize that you are no longer his girl/boy but rather his/her ex; for there is a tendency that she/he will get used to it.
Answer Upon the Phone Rings Test
You may be waiting and hoping for the phone to ring and their number to show up on your caller I.D. Whatever you do, do not answer on the first ring. You want to let the phone ring a few times to let your ex know that you have other important things going on in your life. Your ex is an important part of your past but you need to focus on other things in your life first. The first ring test is one that your ex will use as a breaking up test to see how much hold he or she still holds over you.
The Two-Minute Text Reply Enthusiasm
This text back in two minutes test is the strategy usually applied on break ups to determine the level of interest and desire to appease your ex. Replying back in just two minutes after you received his/her message will not make you look good. How about taking a little time before you respond this time? It is not always nice to be there right away when he needs you. A good relationship should be a shared responsibility; being there for one another. There are boundaries that should be identified while you are not together. If not, things won’t work out between you and your ex if ever you get back together.
These breaking up tests are good for you and your ex, believe it or not. They help you realize that you are a person independent of your ex and helps your ex realize that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around them.
These are both important first steps for both of you when you want to get your ex boyfriend back. Want step by step instructions on passing these and other tests in a relationship? Watch these great videos and put them to work for you: http://www.makeyourexwantyouback.com.
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